I keep a list of (possible) topics for relationship cookbooks, and realized I could just as well keep it here.
NB: there are some repetition for now
Relationship related:
Already happened (it doesn’t mean we won’t do it again)
spacetime: together/separate/long distance and all that: FB event, post
touch & politics: Relationship Cookbook Xplore edition: event, post
summer & festival season: FB event, post
trust & safety: FB event, post
compulsory compersion? FB event, post
commitments: FB event, post
consent and agreements: FB event,
family and friends: FB event, post
navigating NRE: FB event, post
open relationship cookbook: FB event, post
community: FB event, post
(un)common grounds: FB event, post
ricettario per le relazioni (aperte), our first event ever: FB event, post
Future possibilities
stakeholders in relationships
relationship with yourself
traumas and triggers
rules & agreements
(un) natural (?) hyerarchies
rules, agreements, freedom
long term
fighting fair
changes: breaking up, escalating, tranforming
dating parents
being parents
getting close: first dates, activities, questions, NRE
“it used to be a problem until…”
sex and spirituality
differences: libido, involvement, age, desires…
exploration vs. exploitation
drama & attitudes to drama
black, white, shades of grey
“so long, and thank you for…”: breaking up (or not), taking breaks
“you don’t support me when I have a problem/you try to control me with your problems”
“I cannot like someone that likes someone like me”
working with kinks/having kinks/sharing/communicating/discovering
asymmetries
the art of breaking up
kinks and life
“houserules”: my/our rules for life/relationships/everything
being in a relationship: for couples (triads, polycules), not for bickering
Conversations down there
This was the “let’s talk about sex” evolution of the cookbook
conversations down there, general: FB event
ejaculation: male, female, exploring, extending, avoiding…
initiating sex
the bureau of sexual fantasies fulfilment
Not specifically about relationships
dharma cookbook: techniques exchange and chat. FB event
insomniacs’ toolbox: FB event
psychonaut toolbox #1: Fb event
how not to kill plants
shibari and ropes and…
investing and finances
body: health, sanity, …