These are the not-very edited notes from the event. I will try to write down some useable “recipes” soon.
Note: when I’ve no idea what the note means, I it’s marked with (???). I hope other people present will chime in and remind me…
Topics covered, and ideas proposed (at least…
When? 2019-08-28
Where? TBD Somewhere in Berlin, probably Kreuzberg or Neukölln
What?
This is a topic I have been wanting to discuss for a long time, and 2019 seems to be a strange year for break ups…
Cards on the table: I (Alex) was drawn to non-monogamy/polyamory more for the…
Some sort of resume of 3 different events at Xplore Berlin 2019.
Personal/administrative note: I am becoming more and more aware that keeping a conversation “personal and practical” is essential to keep it open and friendly.
Personal experiences are full of shades of grey, of “…
This is a bit of an experiment: I generally take LOTS of notes during events, but they are notes for myself, or “I will one day collect this stuff in an actual cookbook”.
They tend to be lists and bullet points. Some get transcribed the following days, lots just stay in scrap pap…
I keep a list of (possible) topics for relationship cookbooks, and realized I could just as well keep it here.
NB: there are some repetition for now
Relationship related:
Already happened (it doesn’t mean we won’t do it again)
spacetime: together/separate/long distance and…
I am hosting a relationship cookbook at Xplore Berlin, three times the same topic: Touch and Politics, how society, activism, touch, sexuality interact.
(of course, it’s never the same, since every time there are new people, different ideas, different dynamics)
The topic:
Wha…